Is there help for batterers?

Evolve
(845) 331-7080

EVOLVE: Men Helping Men Learn Alternatives to Violence

“This program has helped me to look inside myself and see and feel my true feelings and not be ashamed of them. A lot of things that I have learned in these weekly meetings I have applied to my everyday life, which has helped to open up my relationships with those I love, and those I work with.” - Evolve participant

Evolve groups, run by a male and a female facilitator, help men talk over the tension and frustration they are feeling and learn creative ways to release these emotions rather than abusing their partner. Violence is a learned behavior; therefore it can be unlearned.

The program is sponsored jointly by FAMILY of Woodstock and the Ulster County Mental Health and Probation Departments, and the District Attorney’s office. Men can attend voluntarily, be mandated by a judge, or be referred by a community agency or by Child Protective Services. Once registered, each attends an Orientation Group and then is admitted into the long-term programming. Successful completion of the Evolve program requires attendance at thirty-nine orientation and ongoing group sessions.

Do You Have a Problem With Anger?

  • Have you frightened your family?
  • Have you broken things around the house?
  • Have you verbally harassed someone you love?
  • Have you become violent with a woman?
  • Has your partner left you because you were violent or threatening?
  • Are you afraid your partner will leave you?
  • Are you afraid of becoming violent?

Call FAMILY at (845) 331-7080 and ask for Evolve to find out more about the program and schedule an intake interview.

You can learn to…

  • Show feelings and express fears other than through anger.
  • Feel OK asking for help.
  • Ask for what you want without being violent.
  • Reject stereotypes of how a man is “supposed” to be.
  • Express frustration, disappointment, and anxiety without violence.
  • Take responsibility for your actions.
  • Show your strength by choosing NOT to hit those you love.

Links to FAMILY Resources to End Domestic Violence


Other Useful Resources

FAMILY’s Services to End Domestic Violence
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